Silent Meditation Intensive: The Cradle of Loving-Kindness

January 1st - 3rd, 2027

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Arrival: January 1st, 2:00 PM – 5:00 PM

Departure: January 3rd, 12:30 PM

Tuition:
$265 + 2 nights lodging
Combined at checkout

Meals & drinks included
Inc. V, VG, GF

Add extra nights at 50% off

Tuition:
$265 + 2 nights lodging
Combined at checkout

Meals & drinks included
Inc. V, VG, GF

Add extra nights at 50% off

About the Retreat

In today’s speedy world, we are all in need of kindness to ourselves. This two-day practice intensive is designed for meditators looking to take a deep dive into their practice. This weekend is spent in silence to offer ourselves space to settle, on the sacred land of Drala Mountain Center and with an experienced instructor. This way, we practice befriending ourselves and uncovering our natural basic goodness.

With Friday as the arrival day to settle in, this retreat offers full days of meditation on both Saturday and Sunday. Minimal instruction on the practice of sitting meditation, walking meditation, and mindful eating will be offered.

Due to the largely silent container and minimal talks and instruction, this retreat is not intended as an initial introduction to meditation practice.

Please Note

This program ends at 8:15 pm on Sunday. You may wish to book lodging at DMC for Sunday evening to allow you to enjoy the evening and make a gentle transition, or you may wish to depart after the closing circle and before dinner.

To book an extra night, select “add extra night” in the right corner under “Choose Your Accommodations.” From there, insert 1 where it says “Nights After.”

Please see the FAQs below for more information.

Program Schedule

Day 1

January 1st – Welcome to the Land

2:00 pm – 5:00 pm   Arrival
5:00 pm – 6:00 pm   Orientation, Welcome
6:00 pm – 7:00 pm   Dinner
7:00 pm – 8:15 pm  Opening Session

Day 2

January 2nd – Welcome to the Retreat

7:30 am – 8:30 am   Breakfast
9:00 am – 12:00 pm   Meditation
12:30 pm – 1:30 pm  Lunch
1:30 pm – 3:00 pm   Rest/ROTA
3:00 pm – 6:00 pm   Meditation
6:00 pm – 7:00 pm   Dinner
7:30 pm – 8:15 pm   Mediation

Day 3

February 3rd

7:30 am – 8:30 am   Breakfast
9:00 am – 12:00 pm   Meditation
12:30 pm – 1:30 pm   Lunch
1:30 pm – 3:00 pm   Rest/ROTA
3:00 pm – 6:00 pm   Meditation and Concluding Circle (Circle’s at 5pm)
6:00 pm – 7:00 pm   Dinner
7:30 pm – 8:15 pm   Optional Meditation in the Great Stupa of Dharmakaya

FAQs

Q: How much meditation experience do I need to attend this retreat? Is instruction offered?

A: Meditation instruction is offered on Friday night, and on Saturday there are optional one-on-one meditation interviews with the instructor, and an optional talk Saturday night. This retreat is not designed to be a first introduction to meditation because it is primarily silent practice with the only guidance being what was just mentioned. We’ve had participants from quite a range of backgrounds enjoy the retreat, from people who have meditated briefly before and are looking to go further, to long time practitioners seeking to reconnect through a weekend retreat.

Q: What kind of meditation is practiced? Is it a formal loving-kindness meditation?

A: It is not a formal loving-kindness practice. We will practice a basic sitting meditation called shamatha or “calm abiding”, primarily using our breathing as the support. The spirit of the practice is that we totally welcome everything in our experience just the way it is, and that itself is a profound act of loving-kindness to ourselves and eventually to others. Taking time out of our lives to settle into silence and practice this way is the cradle of loving kindness we’re referring to.

Q: Where can I read more about this approach to meditation here?

A: Our founder Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche’s book Mindfulness in Action: Making Friends with Yourself Through Meditation and Everyday Awareness is a great source, and copies will be available during the retreat as well.

Q: How long are the meditation sessions? Do I have to sit for three hours straight?

A: We practice sitting meditation for thirty minutes at a time, with a ten minute walking meditation in between. So for example in the morning session from 9am – 12pm, we alternate thirty minute sitting meditations and ten minute walking meditations that entire time. There are also resting postures that can be used at any point during the sessions.

Q: Can I sit in a chair?

A: Absolutely! And the instructor can assist you in finding the right posture for your body or making adjustments due to discomfort.

Q: What is Drala Mountain Center’s position on sexual misconduct issues in Shambhala?

A: DMC is unequivocally dedicated to providing a safe and responsive environment, and regards sexual misconduct as totally against our teachings and what we stand for. Under the “About” tab of our website, you can find our Code of Ethics and also our institutional responses in the Misconduct in Shambhala section.

Retreat Faculty

Loden Nyima

Gelong Loden Nyima has been a Buddhist monk for over fifteen years. He lived at Gampo Abbey from 2009 – 2017 where he practiced intensively, completed a cycle of advanced studies (shedra), was empowered and served as a senior teacher. He then lived at Drala Mountain Center from 2017 – 2023 where he served as [...]

Lodging

We have several accommodations to choose from during checkout.
All options include our healthy meals and drinks. Inc V, VG, GF.

Dormitories
Rooms with beds for up to 7-8 people. Gender-segregated with men in their own dorm and women in another. The dorms use a shared bathroom down the hall, which is also equipped with shower stalls.

Monk Rooms
A cost-effective option for participants looking for indoor, solitary lodging, but who don’t mind using a shared bathroom or are looking for a more affordable retreat solution. These rooms are in the same hall as the Ridgen Dormitories, but offer more privacy than the dorms. In addition to a bed, bedding, a private room and closet, the monk rooms also have a large window and a desk and desk chair for added comfort.

Single and Double Rooms
The perfect choice for a retreat where you want both your own space and your own bathroom. Each room offers a little more space, a dresser and closet, and a 3/4s bathroom (toilet, sink, and shower, no bathtub) attached to each room.

Junior Suite
Our Lodge Junior Suites include a queen-size bed topped by a cozy comforter, a desk, dresser, closet and private bath with bathtub, plus a sitting area.

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